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Dating & Relationships word list

Situationships and red flags. 95 words with definitions, example sentences and origins — every one of them shows up when you pick this pack in a game.

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  • admirer

    noun · medium

    A person who feels attraction, affection, or appreciation for someone.

    Someone confidently said admirer in the dating round and immediately got challenged on the spelling.

  • adulterous

    adjective · medium

    Involving sexual or romantic unfaithfulness to a spouse.

    The word adulterous sparked the longest debate of the dating round.

  • adultery

    noun · medium

    Voluntary sexual activity between a married person and someone who is not their spouse.

    As soon as adultery appeared in the dating round, everyone started silently counting letters.

  • affection

    noun · easy

    A feeling of warmth, fondness, or caring toward someone.

    Affection turned the dating round into an unexpectedly competitive spelling moment.

  • ambivalence

    noun · medium

    Having mixed or conflicting feelings about someone or a relationship.

    Someone confidently said ambivalence in the dating round and immediately got challenged on the spelling.

  • anniversary

    noun · medium

    The yearly date marking an important relationship event, such as a wedding.

    They celebrated their anniversary at the restaurant where they first met.

  • attachment

    noun · medium

    An emotional bond that connects one person strongly to another.

    The host read out attachment during the dating round, and half the room asked to hear it again.

  • attraction

    noun · easy

    A feeling of interest or desire that draws one person toward another.

    The host read out attraction during the dating round, and half the room asked to hear it again.

  • attractive

    adjective · medium

    Appealing in appearance, personality, or another way that creates interest or desire.

    The dating round somehow ended with everyone talking about attractive.

  • betrothal

    noun · medium

    A formal agreement or promise to marry.

    The family announced the betrothal over dinner.

  • betrothed

    adjective / noun · medium

    Engaged to be married.

    He introduced his betrothed and immediately got roasted for sounding medieval.

  • boyfriend

    noun · easy

    A male romantic partner.

    The host repeated boyfriend twice in the dating round before anyone wanted to go first.

  • breadcrumbing

    noun · medium

    Giving someone occasional romantic attention to keep them interested without offering real commitment.

    The host read out breadcrumbing during the dating round, and half the room asked to hear it again.

  • breakup

    noun · easy

    The end of a relationship.

    The breakup aired in slow motion.

  • catfishing

    noun · medium

    Pretending to be someone else online, often to deceive a romantic interest.

    The dating round moved on, but people were still whispering the letters in catfishing.

  • closure

    noun · easy

    The final conversation that lets everyone move on.

    She wanted closure; he sent a thumbs up.

  • codependency

    noun · medium

    A relationship pattern involving excessive emotional reliance and unhealthy dependence.

    As soon as codependency appeared in the dating round, everyone started silently counting letters.

  • codependent

    adjective · medium

    So attached you make zero decisions alone.

    They are so codependent they text each other from the same couch.

  • cohabitation

    noun · medium

    Living together in the same home, especially as an unmarried couple.

    The room knew exactly what cohabitation meant during the dating round and still hesitated on the spelling.

  • commitment

    noun · medium

    A serious promise or decision to remain devoted to a relationship.

    As soon as commitment appeared in the dating round, everyone started silently counting letters.

  • communication

    noun · medium

    The exchange of thoughts, feelings, needs, and information between people.

    Communication turned the dating round into an unexpectedly competitive spelling moment.

  • compatibility

    noun · medium

    The ability of two people to get along well because their needs, values, or personalities fit.

    By the end of the dating round, compatibility was still the word people were debating.

  • compromise

    noun · medium

    An agreement where each person gives up part of what they want to reach a solution.

    The dating round paused for a second when compromise showed up.

  • couple

    noun · easy

    Two people who are romantically involved with each other.

    The dating round table recognized couple instantly and still could not agree on the spelling.

  • courtship

    noun · easy

    The period or process of pursuing someone romantically with the possibility of a long-term relationship.

    The host read out courtship during the dating round, and half the room asked to hear it again.

  • crush

    noun · easy

    A strong, often temporary romantic attraction to someone.

    When crush appeared, the dating round got noticeably louder.

  • date

    noun · easy

    A planned social meeting between people with romantic interest or potential.

    The date somehow turned into a conversation about date.

  • dating

    noun · easy

    Spending time with someone socially to explore or maintain a romantic relationship.

    Someone mentioned dating during the dating round, and the conversation took a turn.

  • devoted

    adjective · easy

    Very loyal, loving, and committed to someone.

    Devoted sounded easy in the dating round until somebody had to spell it without autocorrect.

  • disillusionment

    noun · medium

    The disappointment that comes from realizing a person or relationship is not as ideal as believed.

    Disillusionment sounded easy in the dating round until somebody had to spell it without autocorrect.

  • divorce

    noun · easy

    The legal ending of a marriage.

    Nobody expected divorce to become the most memorable word of the dating round.

  • engagement

    noun · medium

    An agreement to marry.

    The engagement lasted nine days.

  • enmeshment

    noun · medium

    A relationship pattern with overly blurred personal boundaries and little emotional separation.

    As soon as enmeshment appeared in the dating round, everyone started silently counting letters.

  • entanglement

    noun · medium

    A messy romantic involvement.

    She called it an entanglement, not cheating.

  • exclusivity

    noun · medium

    An agreement that romantic partners will not date or pursue other people.

    By the end of the dating round, exclusivity was still the word people were debating.

  • faithlessness

    noun · medium

    The quality of being disloyal or unfaithful in a relationship.

    The host repeated faithlessness twice in the dating round before anyone wanted to go first.

  • fiance

    noun · medium

    A person engaged to be married.

    The fiance was not ready.

    Also accepted: fiancé

  • fiancee

    noun · medium

    A woman who is engaged to be married.

    Someone mentioned fiancee during the dating round, and the conversation took a turn.

    Also accepted: fiancée

  • flirting

    noun · easy

    Behaving playfully or suggestively to show romantic or sexual interest.

    The host repeated flirting twice in the dating round before anyone wanted to go first.

  • ghosting

    noun · medium

    Suddenly ending communication with someone without explanation.

    The word ghosting sparked the longest debate of the dating round.

  • girlfriend

    noun · easy

    A female romantic partner.

    The group had heard girlfriend before the dating round, but nobody trusted the spelling.

  • heartbreak

    noun · easy

    Deep emotional pain caused by romantic loss or disappointment.

    Everyone in the dating round knew heartbreak, but spelling it aloud was another story.

  • heartbreaker

    noun · medium

    A person who causes romantic disappointment or emotional pain.

    The dating round moved on, but people were still whispering the letters in heartbreaker.

  • heartbroken

    adjective · easy

    Feeling intense sadness after romantic loss or rejection.

    The dating round moved on, but people were still whispering the letters in heartbroken.

  • honeymoon

    noun · easy

    A vacation traditionally taken by newly married partners after their wedding.

    The dating round paused for a second when honeymoon showed up.

  • incompatibility

    noun · hard

    A lack of fit between people that makes a relationship difficult to sustain.

    The dating round paused for a second when incompatibility showed up.

  • infatuation

    noun · medium

    An intense but often short-lived romantic attraction or obsession.

    The dating round paused for a second when infatuation showed up.

  • infidelity

    noun · medium

    Unfaithfulness to a partner.

    The infidelity rumor got its own episode.

  • interdependence

    noun · medium

    A healthy pattern in which partners rely on and support each other while remaining independent individuals.

    The host repeated interdependence twice in the dating round before anyone wanted to go first.

  • intimacy

    noun · medium

    A feeling of deep emotional, physical, or personal closeness.

    The host read out intimacy during the dating round, and half the room asked to hear it again.

  • irreconcilable

    adjective · hard

    So different or conflicted that agreement or repair seems impossible.

    At the dating round, irreconcilable came up and everyone immediately had an opinion.

  • jealousy

    noun · medium

    The green feeling when your bestie gets a new friend.

    The jealousy when she got a work bestie was palpable.

  • kiss

    verb · easy

    To touch someone with the lips as an expression of affection, romance, or greeting.

    They tried to kiss the situation before it got worse.

  • limerence

    noun · medium

    An intense, often obsessive state of romantic infatuation and longing.

    The host read out limerence during the dating round, and half the room asked to hear it again.

  • lovebombing

    noun · medium

    Overwhelming someone with intense affection or attention, often to gain influence or control.

    Someone mentioned lovebombing during the dating round, and the conversation took a turn.

  • marital

    adjective · medium

    Relating to marriage or married partners.

    The dating round paused for a second when marital showed up.

  • marriage

    noun · easy

    A legally or socially recognized partnership between spouses.

    The word marriage sparked the longest debate of the dating round.

  • match

    noun · easy

    A person considered romantically compatible with another person.

    Someone used match correctly during the dating round, then immediately second-guessed the spelling.

  • matchmaking

    noun · medium

    The act of bringing people together in hopes that they will form a romantic relationship.

    Everyone in the dating round knew matchmaking, but spelling it aloud was another story.

  • matrimonial

    adjective · medium

    Relating to marriage or the process of getting married.

    Someone used matrimonial correctly during the dating round, then immediately second-guessed the spelling.

  • matrimony

    noun · medium

    The state or institution of marriage.

    At the dating round, matrimony came up and everyone immediately had an opinion.

  • miscommunication

    noun · medium

    A failure to understand one another correctly because information was unclear or interpreted differently.

    The dating round table recognized miscommunication instantly and still could not agree on the spelling.

  • monogamous

    adjective · medium

    Having or preferring one romantic or sexual partner at a time.

    The dating round somehow ended with everyone talking about monogamous.

  • monogamy

    noun · medium

    Being romantically committed to one person.

    Monogamy is a loose theme here.

  • orbiting

    noun · medium

    Continuing to watch or interact lightly with someone's social media after ending direct romantic contact.

    Orbiting was the one word everyone remembered after the dating round.

  • paramour

    noun · hard

    A romantic lover, especially one involved in a secret or extramarital relationship.

    Someone confidently said paramour in the dating round and immediately got challenged on the spelling.

  • partner

    noun · easy

    A person with whom someone has a committed romantic relationship.

    Everyone in the dating round knew partner, but spelling it aloud was another story.

  • partnership

    noun · medium

    A relationship in which two people share commitment, responsibilities, or goals.

    The dating round table recognized partnership instantly and still could not agree on the spelling.

  • philandering

    adjective · medium

    Having repeated casual romantic or sexual relationships, especially while being unfaithful.

    Someone used philandering correctly during the dating round, then immediately second-guessed the spelling.

  • platonic

    adjective · easy

    Purely friendly with zero romance.

    They share a blanket, a streaming login, and a strictly platonic bond.

  • polyamorous

    adjective · medium

    Involving or open to multiple consensual romantic relationships at the same time.

    By the end of the dating round, polyamorous was still the word people were debating.

  • polyamory

    noun · medium

    The practice of having multiple consensual romantic relationships at the same time.

    They talked openly about polyamory and relationship boundaries.

  • possessiveness

    noun · medium

    A tendency to be overly controlling or jealous about another person's attention or independence.

    Possessiveness was the one word everyone remembered after the dating round.

  • proposal

    noun · easy

    An offer of marriage.

    The proposal happened at a volcano.

  • reciprocation

    noun · medium

    The act of returning a feeling, action, or gesture in kind.

    Everyone in the dating round knew reciprocation, but spelling it aloud was another story.

  • reconciliation

    noun · medium

    The official end of a friend feud.

    The reconciliation required snacks and three mediators.

  • recrimination

    noun · medium

    An angry accusation made in response to another accusation, often during conflict.

    Nobody in the dating round questioned the meaning of recrimination; the letters were the problem.

  • rejection

    noun · easy

    The act of refusing romantic interest, affection, or a relationship.

    The dating round group recognized rejection, then started arguing about which letters came next.

  • relationship

    noun · medium

    An ongoing emotional, romantic, or interpersonal connection between people.

    The group had heard relationship before the dating round, but nobody trusted the spelling.

  • romance

    noun · easy

    A relationship or feeling centered on love, attraction, and emotional intimacy.

    At the dating round, romance came up and everyone immediately had an opinion.

  • romantic

    adjective · easy

    Relating to love, dating, or affectionate relationships.

    Someone mentioned romantic during the dating round, and the conversation took a turn.

  • romanticize

    verb · medium

    To make a relationship or situation seem more ideal, beautiful, or romantic than it really is.

    They tried to romanticize the situation before it got worse.

  • separation

    noun · medium

    A period or state in which romantic partners live apart or stop functioning as a couple.

    When separation appeared, the dating round got noticeably louder.

  • serendipity

    noun · medium

    A fortunate unexpected event, such as meeting someone by chance.

    The host read out serendipity during the dating round, and half the room asked to hear it again.

  • single

    adjective · easy

    Not currently in a romantic relationship.

    She was happily single and not looking to change that.

  • smitten

    adjective · easy

    Suddenly and completely in love.

    He is smitten with whoever spelled that flawlessly.

  • soulmate

    noun · easy

    A person believed to be an exceptionally deep or ideal romantic match.

    Nobody in the dating round questioned the meaning of soulmate; the letters were the problem.

  • spark

    noun · easy

    A sudden sense of chemistry, excitement, or romantic connection between people.

    The dating round paused for a second when spark showed up.

  • spouse

    noun · easy

    A person's husband, wife, or legally married partner.

    The word spouse sparked the longest debate of the dating round.

  • suitor

    noun · easy

    A person who is pursuing someone romantically, especially with serious intentions.

    Her newest suitor arrived with flowers and absolutely no plan.

  • temptation

    noun · medium

    Something that lures someone to stray.

    Production planted every temptation.

  • ultimatum

    noun · medium

    A final demand.

    She issued an ultimatum on day two.

  • unrequited

    adjective · medium

    Describing love or attraction that is not returned by the other person.

    Everyone in the dating round knew unrequited, but spelling it aloud was another story.

  • vulnerable

    adjective · medium

    Open to emotional exposure.

    He got vulnerable after one drink.

  • wedding

    noun · easy

    A ceremony in which people get married.

    At the dating round, wedding came up and everyone immediately had an opinion.

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